You are Still becoming a player until you can maintain the relationships established. Once you ace maintaining things
past the first experience, you are officially a Player. Also remember a Player never allows too much time on
the phone because you're in the Date Game. You're one the best players in the league and you do not
do Overtimes, you Play 72 defenders each season. In short, if you want to become a Player you can not get
stuck on one girl's game so early in the 'date season.'
What do you do after you have set steps into her mind-sight? Simple. You get her open and begin talking about everything she wants to. Avoid bringing up ex-boyfriends but if necessary, never bash him, just rudely change the subject. No being soft about it, grab your balls and just rudely start talking about some other stuff like you do not care what she was thinking about him. Why? Realistically, you do not care. You do not need a girl who's got her focus on another Player. Let her know this is your house, you have home court advantage, and she needs to play the game harder to keep from losing a champion. What are some key points in starting off every conversation? First off, think like a gentleman and you will get some points. Ask her how her day went and if you have not spoken with her in a while, the past few days. Be comfortable and indulge in her experiences. Nothing easier than talking about someone's life events. A true Player will make some jokes based off the typical stuff she's doing. Examples: + the action — your joke + she went grocery shopping — you ask her jokingly "oh so you're going to cook something for me?" + she's went to the club — trying to learn how to dance good? That's enough out the playbook, but if you need some more reference, search on google for conversation topics and dating jokes. Since you're speaking about her day, just remember most girls just want to talk for 10 minutes on a topic being heard by the best Player she knows, you. They do not even want more feedback than an 'ok' or 'yeah' 85% of the time. So to make your phone time look great at end of convo, a becoming Player just shut up and listen. That's an easy way to score some points and hopefully you can do this. Brush up on your solitaire score on your laptop or practice Madden while talking. She'll never know unless you are totally blocking her out and oblivious to what's going on. You have to learn to listen without really listening in a sense. It's easy Grasshopper as time goes. Also don't forget to acknowledge you hear her time to time with 'ok' and 'yeah' and 'unhuh.' Now, when the ball comes back around to your day Player, Speak about only the positive things. As much negative (defense) as she might give you, the conversation has to balance out. You have to show her you're doing something to make her want to be a part of a Player's program. Everybody wants to be on a winning team so you have to show you're stats are headed to a champion level. Do not brag or anything of that nature but just tell her what good you have going on and are striving for to make her feel if she sticks with you, you're going places. If a girl does not like a man with some sort of drive and ambition, you probably should run a 'lob' her to another lesser of a Player. She's not good to a Player minus the scrimmaging. However... Practice, practice, practice! A tip for those truly wanting to learn How to be a player is learn some psychology dating questions. When younger, a master of trends friend of mine and I spent time studying the art of conversation, pick up lines, and good topics or games that induce conversation. We found pyschology questions that would tell us about a girl without them even knowing that they were actually telling us their private information. "Strawberry fields" and the "Home Issues" were two that I would recommend to every Player out! It opens the gateway to more questions and is pure fun in general. 
Continuing on the topic of fun, always remember having a witty sarcastic remark here and
there is good. And if you want to be a Player, you cannot be afraid to test new material and
see what works. For every 1 girl you lose to a bad joke, 100 you can score points on for a good one. If a joke goes
bad, don't feel bad, just verbally say something like "soooo yeah... no more jokes from me tonight,
i had to much corn I think" or something somewhat funny. I learned from watching a friend that you
can make a bad joke funny if you know how to flip it. If you've got a girl on the phone past one date, trust
she's open to laughing at things a bit corny anyway.
Past the jokes and laughter you have to also dig into her thoughts and habits. Ask her what web sites she visits or TV channels she watches. This will tell a lot about her. This helps give light on which direction you should go with your conversation topics easily. Try to pick up on topics you can relate to from this bit of information. Since you've had a date, and should have been a good date, you can also bring up events from that past history you share. Once anything is common knowledge between the two you can use it in conversation. For example, if she had on an incredible dress that night you can ask her to send you some photos for your cell phone background (not really) and she'll be all gitty and happy, but submissively frictional probably. Start a game of cat and mouse, where you persuade her to send that pic. In whatever 'cat and mouse' game you choose, just win. A good Player rarely loses a scrimmage of game. Last, phone are meant for some privately freaky comments. Why else do you think they created a device a person can talk but not see each other face to face? Simple. A Player invented the phone so he could speak his mind and a girl not slap him for trying. Always balance calls. Never seen like you're sweating a girl. If days are missed where you do not speak to the girl, who cares? Find another to talk to Player. She's not dissing you, just she's living her life just as you should be when not married or obligated by title. -written by C.KHiD |
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Player Tip 1 — Observe The Subject First
First step of becoming a Player of Women is to observe them. Whenever you see a chick you wish to pursue, be sure you try to read her body language and why she's at where she is. This will raise your execution rate!
Player Tip 2 — First Move
The first move should be confident and striking. The observations you made off your defender should make it easy for you to shoot in with a comment that makes the girl want to think longer than a 'yes or no' answer. A Player needs to make sure his initial step is correct oor he may get injured in the game early.
Player Tip 3 — First Call
Success with the first move means everything else is just 'good follow through.' When should you call her? What should you talk about? What kind of girl have you ran game on? This helps you understand what to do in the first call to assert your position as a top prospect Player.
Player Tip 4 — First Date Game
The first Date Game is as important as the first move almost. This is where a Player comes to workout and intimidate the defender to the point she feels she can only try her best to keep up. Confidently humble, you cannot go to certain places this date and you need to base location of date off what kind of girl you think she is.
Player Tip 5 — Future Phone Dates
The phone Date Game is not hard. If conversing past the first date, that means she has a general interest in you and is comfortable in your presence. You have successfully brought another good Defender into your game season. Follow these do and do not rules to help ensure you retain defenders' interests. Sweating is a no go and learn to listen.
Player Tip 6 — Limited Sex
Limiting sex is one rule that gets obviously missed because most don't recognize what a true Player is. To control the game one can not strictly focus on penetrating the defense every time. A great Player pulls top level talent to their team by proving they are more than a layup or dunk. Do not become a dispensable dick because that means you are just an option and just lost to a greater Player aka 'knocked.'
Player Tip 7 — Re-Inventing Game
It's Important That You Never Become Accustomed to Sitting Still as a Player. Even after you retire and have your Championship in hand, you will still have a competitive edge. That edge will only be satisfied by new interests that you can play with your new teammate. Therefore, you must make sure the Defender is accepting of your changing of patterns and accept them without complaints. Nothing worse than picking up a Player for your team that's always complaining what you do does not include them.
Player Tip 8 — Ending The Game
Ending the Game means a Player has found his Trophy and ready to dish some assists. Ending the Date Game for the Trophy means you should take some proper steps without half-stepping. A Player only progresses to a new Game once he retires his jersey from the court'ship league. |
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