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HOW TO BE A PLAYER: first call . how to be a player
You're learning How To Be a Player! You've made it to my third chapter in this How To Be a Player Tips Guide. You have obtained a girl's phone number and now get to schedule your first official Player Call in the Date Game. You need to understand as soon as soon as you get a number, you want to continue to stand out in her mind.

What do other guys do when they get a phone number from a girl? What did you do before when you got a girl's phone number? You would fumble with the number a bit probably, thinking you don't want to seem like you're chasing but at the same time didn't know what was the right time. You are now being informed on how to handle this. You need to run the same 2 first player calls every time! From observation and understanding what kind of female she is, you determine your future player calls!

Call #1 is very simple for you Players Club newbies! Call her the next day if she's seemingly sophisticated and call her the 2nd day if she's more hood and rough with it. It may seem kinda bad separating girls like this but I find each to have separate needs. Reality is what it is and I'm giving you the game flat out.

Why make the first Player Call like this? The Sophisticated lady generally works on a more organized schedule and has things going on that keeps her busy. You want to immediately make the first impression you're just as organized as her and get on her memory fast.

The hood chicks generally have less going on that really confiscates there day. Every time you mack her she will probably just take it as you give it. Same with the little bourgeoisie acting rich girl, she's shallow and has nothing to do but hang with ballers. Is what it is. They are at your disposal.

Okay, now that you've made the call, what's they key elements in the first Player Call? It's simple and obvious if you read the other chapters. You know you must stand out. You want your conversation to be amazingly interesting to her and be different from all other guys out. A good Player is a great conversant and can speak on many topics. Making a girl laugh is the key to getting whatever you want!

Things that you should be able to talk about range from current events to books just read. Definitely a How to Be a Player tip I can give is most girls usually read books. You don't have to read all the Zane novels, but just knowing the titles and some summaries can get you some scoring action in the Date Game!

I find brain teasers and philosophical questions to work with the sophisticated girls. The hood chicks and the bourgeoisie girls, usually are easier. You can score great points in the first Player Call simply by flirting with them and saying what you really mean off top (ie: talk about sex stories and topics... she'll laugh). Then of course listening to all the 'he-say / she-say' nonsense they want to get off their chest. A waste of time for the Player who's in the Game to find a Champion. An easy score for the Player just trying to get their groove on.

Don't get it twisted though, you will have to listen tot he Sophisticated lady's issues too. She just will not find herself in nearly as much drama because she's too busy doing for herself. She's what you can call a potential Draft pick because she might be just as good on the offensive as you but that is NOT something you want to worry about now. There's other players in the game you need to see work out first.

For now, what you need to do is schedule your first date. Sounds fast right? But what other guy does this? Schedule a short, easy date and meet up with her. You want something like a lunch or just a fun time out. The Game is on at this point and you are definitely becoming a better Player, yet still follow my logic.

After scheduling that make sure you tell her to call you when she gets some free time. Why? You just gave her a better Player scrimmage than the average guy and you are making her work for it. Conditioning her mind to let her know your conversation is so good, she's got to work to get more. This is how to be a player. Thinking!



-written by C.KHiD





HOW TO BE A PLAYER chapters
Player Tip 1 — Observe The Subject First
First step of becoming a Player of Women is to observe them. Whenever you see a chick you wish to pursue, be sure you try to read her body language and why she's at where she is. This will raise your execution rate!



Player Tip 2 — First Move
The first move should be confident and striking. The observations you made off your defender should make it easy for you to shoot in with a comment that makes the girl want to think longer than a 'yes or no' answer. A Player needs to make sure his initial step is correct oor he may get injured in the game early.



Player Tip 3 — First Call
Success with the first move means everything else is just 'good follow through.' When should you call her? What should you talk about? What kind of girl have you ran game on? This helps you understand what to do in the first call to assert your position as a top prospect Player.



Player Tip 4 — First Date Game
The first Date Game is as important as the first move almost. This is where a Player comes to workout and intimidate the defender to the point she feels she can only try her best to keep up. Confidently humble, you cannot go to certain places this date and you need to base location of date off what kind of girl you think she is.



Player Tip 5 — Future Phone Dates
The phone Date Game is not hard. If conversing past the first date, that means she has a general interest in you and is comfortable in your presence. You have successfully brought another good Defender into your game season. Follow these do and do not rules to help ensure you retain defenders' interests. Sweating is a no go and learn to listen.



Player Tip 6 — Limited Sex
Limiting sex is one rule that gets obviously missed because most don't recognize what a true Player is. To control the game one can not strictly focus on penetrating the defense every time. A great Player pulls top level talent to their team by proving they are more than a layup or dunk. Do not become a dispensable dick because that means you are just an option and just lost to a greater Player aka 'knocked.'



Player Tip 7 — Re-Inventing Game
It's Important That You Never Become Accustomed to Sitting Still as a Player. Even after you retire and have your Championship in hand, you will still have a competitive edge. That edge will only be satisfied by new interests that you can play with your new teammate. Therefore, you must make sure the Defender is accepting of your changing of patterns and accept them without complaints. Nothing worse than picking up a Player for your team that's always complaining what you do does not include them.



Player Tip 8 — Ending The Game
Ending the Game means a Player has found his Trophy and ready to dish some assists. Ending the Date Game for the Trophy means you should take some proper steps without half-stepping. A Player only progresses to a new Game once he retires his jersey from the court'ship league.




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