The First Date Game is very important. It's the follow up to the first Player Call and she feels you enough to go on this first scrimmage of game. First impressions are everything is a quote that holds much value in the dating world because you may never see a person again. Make sure wherever you go for this first date player, it is simple but uniqe. Do not take her somewhere like a boring restaurant with all the same foods or the movies unless a super-hyped film is coming out. A spectacular first date game as to happen somewhere with the energy to create unique memories! Again, standing out is important! Now, what's some First Date Game ideas I've had before? Again, is the girl Sophisticated or Hood or Bourgeouise? WHere you take each type of girl should vary for the first date. I don't date the bourgeouise girls much because they like tricking too much for my blood. However, most of those I came across will do any kind of date for the guy with money typically. As long as the spot has nobody that might scare her inside, its trendy, and unique, you should be ok. Direct ideas, an Upscale lounge, bar, gym sometimes works out, or restaurant. Even better, perhaps a trip where she can watch you spend money. Remember, she's a girl excited by seeing money being spent, so the more you flash, the more turned on she's getting. Why not score a few points as a Player buying some things in front of her that you already had planned? Up to you if you want to spend on her. Sophisticated Girls are more optimistic. To make a first Date Game good with her, a true Player will something creative to do. I generally vibe well with sophisticated, humble ladies. My suggestion is go somewhere like a zoo or petting zoo, restaurant with a wild menu (ie; alligator, squid, duck, whatever's weird), a nature park, or just invite her to go have a conversation under the stars. 
One thing I can say about the stars is they are great to share with a female and have conversation. However,
if your conversation is weak, do not do this. If you see a shooting star you are in luck because more than likely she'll never see one again
for a very long time. Therefore, when she looks at the stars or thinks about shooting stars, guess
who's attached to it in her mind? How to be a Player does not tell you, you have to
spend money. Tricking is for guys who are Tricks, plenty of free tools for a Player to work the
date game with.
If either of the above mentioned girls are into physical activity, take her rock climbing or skateboarding. Swimming, Tenns, or Handball might even work. The Sophisticated girl will probably be more accepting of these things however as she's built herself to try new things and expand the mind. Understand that logic always. Last, you got the hood chicks. Hood chicks are usually just happy to skip out their hood. Most guys will just take them to a hotel or their house, bag 'em and dish 'em. However, if you're a Player looking to build your roster, you might want to workout with her a little bit and run past 1 drill. Therefore, a player like yourself should take her somewhere that's kind of fly but not too unusual. I find most hood chicks have a hard time stepping outside their normal routine of food and activity, so you gotta go slow motion with her. Usually drinks are a plus and every girl loves to laugh so why not a comedy show? Lounges can work too. Maybe go shoot some pool or bowling. Do keep in mind bowling, pool, comedy shows are something you can do with the sophisticated girls too sometimes. Depends on her activity habits. If she's non-active, might want to skip that. Always put bets on competitive games and such that are hilariously funny. Make some daring type bets like loser has to sing to winner, give the winner a lap dance, or give a back massage to the winner. Free cooking or dinner also works! Depending on the bet however, you might want to loose. In becoming a Player, you should realize sex on the first date is a no go (most of the time). If you can get a girl broke down and open, then tell her no, she's going to go harder on you next time because most girls like challenges. Hood chicks might be a little different at times though so you have to use judgement Player. If you gave her a great first convo, great first date, and she's calling you, don't sweat, you got the win in the bag! And remember... Does not matter if you're massaging her, got her turned on in some kind of way, get a nice kiss.... or if she got on a dress that is looking like candy paint! First date, just say no to sex unless you are trying to run an 'exhibition game' and pass her to the next team. -written by C.KHiD |
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Player Tip 1 — Observe The Subject First
First step of becoming a Player of Women is to observe them. Whenever you see a chick you wish to pursue, be sure you try to read her body language and why she's at where she is. This will raise your execution rate!
Player Tip 2 — First Move
The first move should be confident and striking. The observations you made off your defender should make it easy for you to shoot in with a comment that makes the girl want to think longer than a 'yes or no' answer. A Player needs to make sure his initial step is correct oor he may get injured in the game early.
Player Tip 3 — First Call
Success with the first move means everything else is just 'good follow through.' When should you call her? What should you talk about? What kind of girl have you ran game on? This helps you understand what to do in the first call to assert your position as a top prospect Player.
Player Tip 4 — First Date Game
The first Date Game is as important as the first move almost. This is where a Player comes to workout and intimidate the defender to the point she feels she can only try her best to keep up. Confidently humble, you cannot go to certain places this date and you need to base location of date off what kind of girl you think she is.
Player Tip 5 — Future Phone Dates
The phone Date Game is not hard. If conversing past the first date, that means she has a general interest in you and is comfortable in your presence. You have successfully brought another good Defender into your game season. Follow these do and do not rules to help ensure you retain defenders' interests. Sweating is a no go and learn to listen.
Player Tip 6 — Limited Sex
Limiting sex is one rule that gets obviously missed because most don't recognize what a true Player is. To control the game one can not strictly focus on penetrating the defense every time. A great Player pulls top level talent to their team by proving they are more than a layup or dunk. Do not become a dispensable dick because that means you are just an option and just lost to a greater Player aka 'knocked.'
Player Tip 7 — Re-Inventing Game
It's Important That You Never Become Accustomed to Sitting Still as a Player. Even after you retire and have your Championship in hand, you will still have a competitive edge. That edge will only be satisfied by new interests that you can play with your new teammate. Therefore, you must make sure the Defender is accepting of your changing of patterns and accept them without complaints. Nothing worse than picking up a Player for your team that's always complaining what you do does not include them.
Player Tip 8 — Ending The Game
Ending the Game means a Player has found his Trophy and ready to dish some assists. Ending the Date Game for the Trophy means you should take some proper steps without half-stepping. A Player only progresses to a new Game once he retires his jersey from the court'ship league. |
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